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October 11: National Coming Out Day — Stories, Struggles & Strength

  • Writer: Church Wellesley Village BIA
    Church Wellesley Village BIA
  • Oct 10
  • 2 min read

Why October 11?

National Coming Out Day was founded in 1988 by psychologist Robert Eichberg and activist Jean O’Leary. The date — October 11 — marks the anniversary of the Second National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights in 1987.


The idea was simple but powerful: visibility creates change. When people come out, it challenges stereotypes, builds empathy, and fosters equality.


KD Lang on the cover of the advocate
Canadian Icon and Trailblazer K.D. Lange comes out in The Advocate in 1992

The Power & Complexity of Coming Out

Coming out is both a deeply personal milestone and a political act. It can mean:

  • Relief and authenticity for the individual.

  • Visibility and representation for the community.

  • Risk — depending on family, cultural, or workplace environments.

💡 Important note: Coming out is never required. No one owes visibility, and safety should always come first.


How People Celebrate

  • Social media campaigns: Sharing stories, photos, or reflections.

  • Visibility projects: Universities and workplaces host panels, storytelling sessions, or rainbow flag displays.

  • Community events: Parades, concerts, or “Coming Out” storytelling nights.

  • Allies: Wearing pins, posting support, or simply reminding friends they are safe and loved.


Tips for Allies on National Coming Out Day

  • Listen without judgment.

  • Respect privacy. Someone’s story is theirs to share.

  • Avoid assumptions. Gender identity and sexual orientation are personal.

  • Celebrate with care. A simple “I’m proud of you” can mean the world.


Coming Out Stories

From celebrities like Ellen DeGeneres, Billy Porter, and Elliot Page, to everyday people in schools, families, and workplaces — coming out stories ripple far beyond the individual. Each one chips away at silence and stigma.

Sven Robinson being interviewed in 1988
Svend Robinson the First Canadian Member of parliment to openly Come out

Final Thoughts

October 11 isn’t just a date — it’s a reminder that visibility changes the world. Whether you’re coming out, supporting someone who is, or just reflecting on the meaning of authenticity, today is about courage, solidarity, and pride.

Happy National Coming Out Day! 🏳️‍🌈✨

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